Size doesn’t matter, they say, and I guess that’s true. If ‘the motion of the ocean’ is correct, a girl isn’t going to complain about the size of the ship!
I’m a naturist, so over the years I’ve seen thousands of penises. Seen one, seen ’em all, in their essentially ‘averageness’. Some bigger than others, some guys grow as opposed to show, but essentially there, and that’s about the extent of what’s required. If it works for you, and your significant other, what else is required? In a naturist environment they pretty much -like breasts or vaginas- become invisible to a large degree. I’m judging people on how interesting they are, not the size of their exaggerated equipment. If I’m ‘looking’ at anything, as I was on the beach this afternoon, it’s a toned body correlated to age (I don’t expect 60 year old guys to look like Adonis, but they can still look fit and healthy).
In the context of SL, I have to say that I’ve always been more impressed by a guy who is realistically proportioned, and who understands realism.
If you want stupid looking penises, SDI is a good bet.